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REMINISCENCE OF GRANDMA PARRETT (Emma Jane Dent)
Posted By:
Rick Dent
Date Posted:
October 12, 2006 at 19:28:53
My grandfather was Captain John Dent, a captain in the Revolutionary War,
My mother's father was William Berkshire. My mother was born atCumberland
on the Potomac and moved to West Virginia when quite young, living thennear
the Dent home in West Virginia. Both of my grandfathers owned beautiful
homes and large plantations in West Virginia. The work was done by negro
slaves, superintended by over-seers. The principal productions were corn,
wheat, tobacco, buck-wheat and flax. Large flocks of sheep were raised.All
the clothing blankets were made at home. Yarn was spun, colored and knit
into stockings. From the flax was made all the household linen, even the
thread that was used being made from the finest of flax.
Although but a little girl of twelve, when I last saw my grandfatherDent's
home, well do I remember it. The house was a wooden structure with alarge
double porch on the front. It was surrounded by trees, and nestled amongthe
beautiful rolling hills. On some of the hills were trees, on others the
fields of flax, corn, tobacco and buck-wheat, while others were coveredwith
grazing sheep and cattle.
The memory of the interior of the house is especially well preserved inmy
mind. In the parlor was a large brick fireplace, with brass andirons and
brass knobbed tongs and shovel. The floor was carpeted with a beautiful
homemade carpet that my grandmother made herself of wool. The chain forit
was so that the chain made it striped. A few pictures hung on the wall, a
fine large clock stood on the floor, a corner cupboard with glass doorsand
filled with china and silverware, used only for company, stood in onecorner
and over the fireplace was a nice mantelpiece with high brasscandlesticks
and ornaments. Among these ornaments was often found a ripe tomato,called
in those days, a love-apple and considered unfit for food. The chairswere
made of hard wood, high-backed, painted pink with green flowers on theupper
part of the backs. A few small tables stood in different parts of theroom,
and the windows were curtained with hanging curtains of white goods.
Grandmother Dent's bedroom opened from both parlor and sitting-room. Itwas
carpeted similar to the parlor. The bed stood at one side. It was a high
posted bed with curtains looped back with ribbon. It was a corded bed,with
small rope laced back and forth in the place of the slats and springs of
today. Over the cord was a tick filled with straw, then a large featherbed,
linen sheets, bolster with fine linen case and knit lace from linenthread,
quilts and homemade blankets and a homemade coverlid of linen knotted in
patterns. The other furnishings of the room were a small stand, twobureaus,
one small and one a six foot chest of drawers, so tall that one had tostand
on a chair to look into the upper drawer, a cushioned rocking-chair, aplain
chair and a large looking glass.
The sitting room was quite large with a corner fireplace and grate. Itwas
around this fireplace that the family loved to gather in the evenings andit
was in the light of the bright coals from its grate that I rememberseeing,
on one occasion, my grandfather Dent and my great-grandfather Evans, whoat
that time was ninety-five years old and who was visiting my grandfather
Dent, and hearing them tell stories of the Revolutionary War, in whichthey
both had taken part. A large dining table stood in this room but it wasonly
used when company came. There were high-backed splint bottomed chairs and
also cushioned rocking-chairs. The floor was carpeted with a home-made
carpet. Half curtains, such as are used now, hung at the windows.
Back of this sitting-room was a large hallway from which the stairway
ascended. There were three rooms upstairs.
The kitchen was four or five feet lower than the other house and had an
entry between. It was two stories high. The negro cooks slept upstairsover
the kitchen. It was called the negro cook's quarters. The cooks wereUncle
Jess, wife and family. The other negros had separate houses, a short
distance from the main house. In the kitchen was a large fireplace wherethe
cooking was done. Chestnut, hickory and oak were used for fuel. Fire was
kept overnight by laying thick pieces of bark on the coals then covering
them thickly with ashes. If the fire went out it had to be started with a
flint as there were no matches in those days. There was a crane in the
fireplace which had several hooks so that two or three kettles could hang
over the fire at one time. The bread was baked in ovens and on thehearth.
There were two cook tables and plenty of cooking utensils in the kitchen.A
little way from the kitchen, on the bank of a small creek, called "Dent's
Run", was a large stone milk-house. There was a spring close by, and the
water trickled from it across the floor of the milk-house, keeping themilk
always cool. On the upper shelves of the milk-house were kept all the
preserves and butter.
In this beautiful home were raised a large family consisting of eightboys
and four girls. Their names were: John, George, Dudley, Enoch, James (my
father), Nimrod, Marmaduke, Evans, Betsy, Nancy, Margaret and Ann Arrah.As
the children grew up and married, they usually made homes for themselveson
or near the plantation of their father, but early in the thirties thespirit
of the West came among them and in 1831 my uncle John Dent, came toIllinois
and in 1832 my Uncle Enoch followed. Then it was that the messages coming
from these brothers so filled by (sic) father with the idea of making ahome
for himself and family in the West that in the fall of 1834 he decided to
leave his Virginia home and settle on the prairies of Illinois. At thattime
Illinois was considered the far West.
It was on the morning of October 5, 1834, that we started overland fromWest
Virginia to Illinois. We had one large covered wagon, called a prairie
schooner, drawn by four large fine horses: Queen, Tameny, Old Dick, andBet.
A large feed trough hung on the back of the wagon and underneath hung a
wooden bucket used for watering the horses. Bedclothing and clothes thatwe
would not need on the way, were boxed up tight in boxes and stowed awayin
the bottom of the wagon. Three feather beds and what bedding we wouldneed
on the way was put into trunks. We had a large box containing a goodsupply
of provisions and dishes. We took some horse feed but father bought mostof
the feed for the horses along the way. He also bought extra provisionsfor
the family as they were needed. We had a gun with a flint and an old
fashioned powder horn.
There were nine of us. Father, mother and seven children. My parentsnames
were: James and Dorcas Dent, the children were: Nancy Ann--14, Emma Jane,
(myself)--12, John William--8, Nelson Bershire (sic)--6, Margaret
Rebecca--4, James Benone--3, and Helen Mary--11 months.
Just as we were ready to start my little brother Ben, came running out
saying, "I want to ride Old Dick, and carry the johnny-cake board."
We had always lived near Morgantown, West Virginia, on the plantation of
Grandfather Dent, and when the time came to leave our old Virginia home,it
seemed very hard to go. Grandfather and Grandmother Dent were franticwith
grief at the thought of the separation from their son and grandchildren.I
can remember seeing my grandfather with his cane in his hand, walking upand
down the walk, unable to keep quiet. My aunt, Ann Arrah and severaluncles
and cousins were there to bid us good-bye. The darkies all cried andwaved
their handkerchiefs. Everyone thought we were going to the end of theworld
and stood small chance of escaping being killed by Indians. When we were
just ready to start one of our cousins came on horseback to see us start,
and my father being so overcome with grief at the separation and sorrowof
the family took the cousins horse and rode several miles ahead, tellingthe
cousin to drive that far for him.
We stopped overnight in a small town where we had friends. In the morningwe
started in earnest on our long journey which now-a-days people travel in
less than twenty hours but which at that time took us five weeks with our
double team. Margaret and William were the only ones of our family thatever
visited the east. Benona was there during the Civil War. We alwaysstopped
at inns or farm houses for our night's rest. My mother used her ownbedding
and did all her own cooking. We always had a warm breakfast and a warm
supper so that our noon meal was the only one we had to eat cold. Someone
always rode one of the horses and drove.
My father generally did so, but when he would get too tired one of theboys,
usually William, would ride while father walked. Nothing happened toalarm
us until after we had crossed the Pennsylvania line. We were going down a
steep hill when Tammeny slipped and fell over the tongue. We were all
frightened but my father jumped off the horse he was riding, picked up a
large stone and put it under the wheel to keep the wagon from pushing onthe
horses. Then he loosened the horses from the wagon and helped Tammeny up.
The horse was unhurt so all the horses were re-hitched and we were soonon
our journey again. Nothing of note happened until we came to the OhioRiver.
We crossed the river on a little ferry at a little town called
Elizabethtown. The horses were very restless while on the river andcaused
my father considerable trouble but we got safely over and stoppedovernight
a few miles from where we crossed. At Zanesville we crossed the river ona
wagon bridge. It was the first bridge we had crossed. All the otherrivers
had been forded or crossed on ferries.
We stayed all night about a mile from the bridge at West Zanesville. Inthe
evening my mother sent William, Nelson and myself after bread and
gingerbread. After getting it, instead of going straight back to ourhotel,
we ran up another wooden bridge and seeing a little house on the bridge,we
ran and looked in. A man inside saw us and told us if we did not run away
quick we would have to pay toll. At this we scampered back in a hurry to
mother with our bread and gingerbread. It was somewhere near Columbusthat
we struck the turnpike road where we had to pay toll. We traveled the the
rest of the way through Ohio on this road. At Columbus we saw the firstfail
we had ever seen.
At Springfield we stopped to get a new supply of tea. We usually stopped
traveling on Sundays and rested. When we crossed the state line intoIndiana
we came to what was called a corduroy road. It was about a mile long and
very rough, being made of logs laid close together. We stopped at Uncle
Lazier's in Newcastle, for two days and while there my mother washed,ironed
and baked. We started on toward Indianapolis. My father had his route all
laid out before he left home. My Uncle Enoch and John Dent had mapped out
the road they had taken and sent it to him. As we went into Indianapolisand
were crossing a wooden plank bridge, one of the horses, Bet, got her foot
into a hole in the bridge and ran a splinter into it. Father took her toa
blacksmith who took the shoe off and removed the splinter. Father thenled
her to the river and bathed her foot but we had to stop a whole day until
her foot was better. When we came to the Wabash River there was no bridge
and the river was too deep to ford and the ferry was on the Illinoisside.
The ferryman had gone home. Father called and called but could not untilit
was almost dark make him hear. He then ferried us over and we stayed all
night at his house. The next day we started in on our last week'sjourney.
The ferryman, Mr. Filson, told us we would have to pass through a twenty
mile stretch of prairie and for us to take drinking water along in jugs.My
father also bought a supply of turnips and potatoes at his place. Westarted
from Filson's ferry and in a short time came out on the prairie. This
prairie was a wonderful sight to us. Nothing in sight excepting the treeswe
had passed near the river, but high waving grass. We were all daycrossing
this twenty mile strip and during the day we saw no living thing but alone
wolf and a few prairie chickens. We children got out of the wagon for arest
and breaking off rosin weeds, used them for playing guns and shotimaginary
Indians and prairie chickens, as we ran along by the side of the wagon.
In the afternoon my father discovered a prairie fire and that it wascoming
toward us. He hardly knew what to do but decided it would be best to keepin
the road and go on til we met it. He told us to cover up the middle ofthe
wagon. Mother was with us. In a few minutes the fire met us, father,sitting
on his horse driving, whipped up the horses and drove through the firewith
all his family crying in the wagon, frightened nearly to death andwishing
that they could turn and start back. When we got through the fire father
took his blacksnake whip and beat the fire out in the grass that hadalready
been burned and they rubbed down the horses and petted them and let them
rest awhile. Then we traveled on until we came to the home of a familynamed
Butler. We stayed all night there. We were very tired but felt sothankful
that we had escaped from the prairie fire with so little damage.
For several days we traveled along with nothing of importance happening
until we reached the head of Painter's Creek, from there we were to start
across a fifteen mile tract of prairie. We stopped at the creek to waterthe
horses and noticed a great many little willow switches. My father cut off
some and gave them to us children. My mother, William and my oldestsister
Nancy, all got out of the wagon leaving us little children in the wagon
alone. The lines were fastened in some way to the harness when the horses
became frightened at something, probably a switch in the hands of one ofthe
children, and started to run away. My father tried to catch them but was
unable to do so. They ran for four or five miles, we children frightened
nearly to death. In some way the end-gate opened up and the package of
bedclothes kept there being jolted out. Father kept running, trying tokeep
the team in sight. Mother followed him with the two older children,picking
up the things that had dropped out and carrying them until her arms were
full, then they made a little pile of them and sat down to wait untilthey
could know the result of the run-away. We younger children, in the wagon,
thought of the brilliant idea of following the example of the packagesand
dropping out of the back of the wagon too. We first dropped into the feed
trough and then the jolting of the wagon soon jolted us to the ground. Ilet
the younger children jolt out first, as I was holding the baby andfinally
when I did drop out in my effort to shield the baby, I hurt my arm sobadly
that I could not use it for several weeks. My father met my brother and
asked him how he got out. He replied, "I fell out." Then in response tothe
question as to whether he was hurt or not, he replied, "No I rolled away
from the wagon." Finally the team grew tired and stopped running alongthe
road and began running in a circle being on the prairie. My fatherhastened
to them. He then turned them back and picked up his scattered family and
household goods. This put us back so that we made only fifteen miles that
day.
We arrived at Crow Creek and stayed all night there. The next morning we
were anxious to start as it would be the last day of our long journey. We
soon struck the Meridian line and following it until we came to UncleEnoch
Dent's stone quarry, on Sandy Creek. We arrived there about twelveo'clock
and when we came in sight of the house we saw two of the boys, John and
Evans, unloading corn from a wagon into a corn crib. When they saw us one
said to the other, "There comes Uncle Jimmy." Then Evans ran to the houseto
tell his parents of our arrival.
By the time we reached the house they were all out to greet us and to
welcome us. It was the 8th of November, 1834, when we arrived at Uncle
Enoch's. There was great rejoycing (sic) over our safe arrival. Then themen
went to care for the horses and Aunt Judith went to getting dinner, with
mother helping her and visiting while they worked. Of course the dinnerwas
a fine one and after dinner the boys brought in two fine watermelons that
they had been saving for us. The year had been prosperous and they had
plenty of prairie hay, corn and vegetables that they had raised. In those
early days everyone choose (sic) timberland, little knowing the value ofthe
prairie land at the time.
Uncle Enoch lived in a one-room log cabin with a garret above which was
reached by means of a ladder and as his family was large, as also wasours,
we did not stay long with him but as soon as we could arrange it, movedto a
home of our own nearby and into a similar structure, to that of Uncle
Enoch's. It was almost impossible to get furniture anywhere without going
twenty miles for it, either to Laconer or Hennepin and then only the
cheapest, crudest kind and as father had to lay in a supply of feed forthe
horses for the winter and wood and provisions for his family before the
weather grew too cold, he didn't have time to go, so he made a table outof
the dry goods boxes that we had brought along. We had two chairs that we
brought with us and father made three-legged stools. Then Uncle Enochloaned
us a few chairs to use until father could go after furniture. Mother made
curtains of the sheets and calico, divided the upper room into bedrooms.She
made little draw-string curtains for the two windows. Everything lookedreal
cozy. Occasionally, though, Mother would feel so homesick for herVirginia
home that she would take a good cry. The first one was when she did her
first washing. She had always been used to soft water and did not knowhow
to break hard water.
There was no school near that winter and so we all stayed home. It was
nearly Christmas time when there came quite a snowstorm. Captain Hawe and
wife, who lived three miles from us, and our Uncle Johnny Dent and his
daughter Susan came to spend the evening. Father sent over for UncleEnoch
and Aunt Judity to cover over too. Captain Hawe and Uncle John Dent both
told wonderful stories of the Black Hawk War, in which they both hadserved.
We older children listened with great interest and while thestory-telling
was going on in one part of the room, mother was preparing a fine supperby
the fire-place, consisting of warm biscuits, roasted spare-ribs, homemade
sausage, coffee, doughnuts and pie.
And such was life in the new country. It was a life of privation and
hardships in many ways but after all a happy life. Many changes have
occurred since then and I can scarce realize, when I look around me nowthat
such changes could have been accomplished even in the seventy years that
have passed. The waving prairie grass can be seen no more, but we cannot
regret its loss, when we see the beautiful farms, homes and cities that
stand where it once waved.
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